Words from the mama:
“I am still in shock and awe at what God can do. My pregnancies have been very difficult, from Aaden's loss to complications with Brooklyn's birth (both ending in c-sections). I always dreamed of having a VBAC, a birth without complications, where I could just enjoy my baby. This was it. Having the support of Boca Midwifery made all the difference."
“Everyone was patient with me and my concerns and considered my history. I couldn't ask for more. I had the best support and birth team I could ask for. Everyone was patient with me and my concerns and considered my history. They truly listened to my fears and desires for this birth. Having a midwife and doula who understood my previous c-sections and supported my VBAC journey was so important. I couldn't ask for more. Thank you to Lisa Raynor, my doula, Courtney McMillian, my midwife at Boca Midwifery, Paulina Splechta, my birth photographer and filmmaker, and of course my husband, David. I literally could not have labored nor survived this pregnancy without you." - Jocelyn
When I first met Jocelyn, I felt an instant connection. Hearing about her previous c-sections really resonated with me and learning of the heartbreaking loss of her baby, Aaden, forged a deep connection between us.
I understood her journey on a personal level, having experienced two unplanned cesareans myself with my babies and neither of my births went as planned.
But Jocelyn had something I didn't: an incredible birth team that included a midwife, doula, and her birth photographer. Seeing the support she had from Boca Midwifery, I was excited to see how her labor would unfold. But I was also a little nervous for her, admittedly, and felt like we all needed to pray together that this mama would be able to experience a healing VBAC after her loss.
I was so excited for her to experience a VBAC and to meet and hold her baby immediately, and I knew it in my heart that this could only happen with Boca Midwifery. They understood her medical history and they cared for her the entire pregnancy, but it was a delicate journey Jocelyn had been on, from experiencing the loss of one of her children and complications with her daughter Brooklyn's birth, and I was anxious to witness the birth of baby Riley. I didn't know if we would witness her having a vaginal delivery or if we would have to go into the operating room. I feel the entire labor and delivery staff was rooting her on at Toppel Family Place (The labor and delivery unit of Boca Raton Regional Hospital in East Boca [off of Glades Road, just east of I-95]).
A lot of birth workers uncover a deep passion for their work due to their own emotional and personal history, and with me, it is completely true. Originally, I wanted to test the waters four years ago when I photographed my first birth. But once I captured that birth for my client, I knew this is where my heart belongs and its become so much more than photography over the last four years.
In all this time, four years, I had never witnessed a vaginal delivery after TWO CESAREANS. I had attended many VBACs (vaginal delivery after cesarean) with Boca Midwifery, Women's Health Partners, Dr. Skeete down in Ft Lauderdale, and vbac home births with midwives Gelena Hinkley, Sandy Lo, Mary Harris. But I had in all this time never seen a mommy successful deliver a baby vaginally after having two previous c-sections. And the reason I haven't before seen a vbac after two c-sections is not entirely that the trial for a vbac after two csections failed with previous clients. It's not that at all.
Pros & Cons of VBAC
Many people question the safety of VBAC, but reading through legitimate, backed medical research (such as mayo clinic, cleveland clinic, and going just straight to the National Institute of Health and combing through the latest VBAC research studies, you will see that is merely a myth, and so it begs for us to discuss the pros and cons of VBAC. I do hear a lot of people saying why would you want to go through a vaginal birth if you could just schedule a smooth and calculated repeat c-section.
I will urge you to pause and view this interview I did with Dr. David Lubetkin, who partners with Midwives Courtney, Nikki and Ryan at Boca Midwifery, where I ask him about the pros and cons of VBAC. I think if you are a mom in south Florida and you’ve had a c-section before, and would like to know whether you qualify for a Vaginal Delivery with your next pregnancy after your previous C-section, it’s good to hear from the OBGYN who’s practice has the highest success rate of VBAC in Palm Beach County and Boca Raton:
It's that often times the mommys who have had two csections stay with their provider who automatically schedules a repeat third csection for them with their third delivery. These moms are simply not aware of the option to try for a vbac after two c-sections. No one has even told them that its physically possible to achieve. And what the benefits to having a vbac are instead of scheduling a repeat cesarean. Most of the vbacs I have documented in my four years as a birth photographer here in south Florida have been moms who had a c-section with a practice (sometimes traumatic, physically or on an emotional level) and change practices, hoping for a more positive, empowered and supported experience for their subsequent pregnancy to a practice heavily experienced in achieving safe and successful VBACs. Many of my VBAC birth clients with Boca Midwifery have exactly this story.
As Jocelyn's entire birth team stood around her during her final pushes, I thought to myself, "this is happening, this mama is going to meet her baby right now"
I felt the tears begin to swell up in my eyes, I tried to hush them and focus on capturing this incredible moment. I stood near mom's shoulders, making sure that her midwife was blocking any angles that would prevent Jocelyn from being able to share photos from her birth story with her family and friends, I looked up at Jocelyn and her husband David, they were smiling at each other, at their doula and midwife, at me. Their doula, Lisa Raynor, was proudly beaming a smile back at them and at me. Baby nurse Donna was eagerly waiting to meet their sweet baby, also wearing a proud smile for mama. Her midwife, Courtney McMillian, was focused and positive and their nurse Peggy knew this moment was about to happen.
This moment would contribute to the shift in the change of the world's view of birth. A successful vbac after two cesareans for Boca Midwifery, for the labor and delivery staff at Boca Raton Regional Hospital, but most importantly, a footprint in the history of birthing women, showing them, that with the right support and birth team for your pregnancy, skilled vbac professionals who have a great deal of patience and success rates, a vbac after two csections is possible.
Knowing this fact, it put chills on my back.
Knowing that maybe someday, I too could experience a vbac, after my two unjust csections with previous providers and birth teams who had failed to support and encourage me in the ways I needed.
You can watch the film of the birth of Riley below:
Jocelyn's two-time cesarean scar and baby Riley's teensy feet
